Forbearance (self control)

"Forbearance" which is the lacking part in many youngsters, where they don't take time to think but react for things fast and regret later. Being patient is a power that the surrounding things cannot affect your emotions or damage your mental state, or not reacting for the anexity of others. 

Anger is one of worst enemy which stay inside you, we actually spoil things by reacting for anger, many have lost family, friends, relationships, things and even more. Just a moment of thinking can save many things, all you need is take time. 

Life is very simple to live, but we insist it making complicated.

Think twice before reacting or regret later it's the thing left in your choice. Controlling your self is mastering you from inside, that means you can control your own emotions which is main part needed in life PEACE. Control your thoughts don't let your mind think unwanted things control it by thinking about positive things or how to upgrade your self 

an example; if you keep delaying the work when will you finish it? there is no right time, right day if you are thinking to start a new work, but today is the best day. Do not overthink about small things and spoil your precious time. If one thing doesn't affect after 5 years just leave it, things which is hurting you now or consuming your emotions is waste of time after few days the same things won't affect you but the time which you left behind won't come back.

Always keep in mind today is the last day it won't repeat if you waste it, you can only regret later.

Know yourself, always thinking about social media upgrading your looks and lifestyle is not only major things in life. Upgrade your self by learning life lessons if someone notices your mistake and say it to you, be thankful to them. Life doesn't come with instructions. Mistakes cannot be corrected but we can avoid repeating it 

And master ourself. 

Attitude towards the things defines you.

The behaviour of one towards the things is the attitude being arrogant or aggressive / being patient and silence. So controlling yourself is strengthening you from inside. Sometimes reacting for wrong things affect the yourself.

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